AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY???

Subject: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:57 pm

As some of you already know, my little girl was sexually assaulted on her 9th birthday by our next door neighbour.
he was given a suspended sentence and put on the register for 5 years (he was a retired prison officer, had he gone to jail he would have come out in a box)
he carried on living next door for about 8 months and finally he and the mrs moved just round the corner.
Yesterday I found out that he had died on SIneads birthday(karma???)
he was 76.
I had a drink to celebrate, I feel like putting bunting all around the house, having a party, ect, ect.
I can't help the way I feel, I am so glad he is dead, I really am.
feeling this happy that someone has died doesn't sit to well, but I am elated and I just can't help it.

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:18 pm

No Your Not any normal parent would feel the same

I cant believe he moved back in next door

that must have been awful

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:23 pm

I would have a party!!!!! no you arent wrong i would feel the same

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:35 pm

I was our worst nighmare when he moved back next door, when he was on bail he was not allowed within a 2 mile radius of the town.
he gets to trial, admits it and within 3 hours he was right back next door, the law is an ass.
Both Sinead and I didn't want to leave the house. Ste wanted to kill him but he had to refrain, he would have probably been locked up if he has clobbered him.

he used to hang his underpants on the line for us to see and mow his front lawn with his top off.
His windows went through a few times but all this did was highlight things for Sinead.

by the way, she is absolutely fine now.

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:39 pm

hilary bradshaw wrote:

As some of you already know, my little girl was sexually assaulted on her 9th birthday by our next door neighbour.
he was given a suspended sentence and put on the register for 5 years (he was a retired prison officer, had he gone to jail he would have come out in a box)
he carried on living next door for about 8 months and finally he and the mrs moved just round the corner.
Yesterday I found out that he had died on SIneads birthday(karma???)
he was 76.
I had a drink to celebrate, I feel like putting bunting all around the house, having a party, ect, ect.
I can't help the way I feel, I am so glad he is dead, I really am.
feeling this happy that someone has died doesn't sit to well, but I am elated and I just can't help it.

your not abnormal at all Hilary.
I would be dancing on the bastards grave.

wtf!!! after him being found guilty he was allowed to carry on living next door to you.
omg I cannot imagine what you and your family went through. that t**t should of been made to leave the area, so much for the justice system it's
outfuckingragous.

he would of been dead long before now if it were my daughter, t must of taken a hell of a lot for you and Steve to keep from killing him

I so admire you both for that

Your Sinead has grown into a beautiful confident woman good for her. you must both be so proud of her

so dance on the bastards grave Hils and Ste, I for one would

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:54 pm

Oh my god i had to read this about 3 times I hold my hat off to you cant even imagine what that must of been like for you all but yeah i agree DANCE BABY DANCE AS Terence trent darby sang but make sure its on the BASTARDS GRAVE!!!!!!

Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Sat Jul 24, 2010 5:51 am

Jeez Hilary how awful the bastard being next door. As already said the law is an arse.

You party girl and enjoy every sip you drink.

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Sat Jul 24, 2010 8:46 am

the system is totally corrupt

you have every right to party as that bastard has finally had his comeuppance.
enjoy

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:01 am

I'll come down and dance on the B*%stards grave with you...

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Suze XXX

Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Sat Jul 24, 2010 6:03 pm

omg thas terrible that ur daughter had to go thru that

ur deffo not wrong to b glad hes died - i would b aswell hun

enjoy a good few drinks - u deserve them!

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:17 am

Suze wrote:

I'll come down and dance on the B*%stards grave with you...

yea me too!!!!!

i'd have put banners up and let the whole street know why i was partying!!!....

good riddance to bad rubbish

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Wed Jul 28, 2010 9:37 pm

Don't quite know what to say tbh Hilary.

It's not something I would want to talk about personally so I think you're very brave putting it on here. I cant imagine being able to live with that & to have him within even a 100 mile radius of me would drive me nuts.

Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Wed Jul 28, 2010 11:18 pm

it was his funeral today, nothing in the papers, no church, no flowers and no one there.... we are best friends with his son, he and his family didn't go, (he had been abusing him since he was 10,) but his sister did go hence this is how I know.

Scum, I have now finally found some peace, and I am a little bit pissed

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Thu Jul 29, 2010 4:34 pm

good riddance to bad rubbish

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Subject: Re: AM I WRONG TO FEEL THIS WAY??? Thu Jul 29, 2010 6:52 pm

go and dance on his grave the horrible nasty bastard he should of died along time ago and suffered till he dropped.if i lived closer i would join you.

big hugs for you.xxxx